GET OVER IT SISTAH ! (updated)

salam :)

The title for this post is actually, or simply my main point is:

 Don't Hate Your Ex-bf and His Current Ehem 

   Separation is a natural or lumrah matter. Setiap yang datang itu akan pergi, setiap yang pergi itu akan kembali semula. Okay, maybe the second part of the phrase sounds a bit off but you know what I mean. AND setiap yang hidup itu akan mati. So from this, different people tend to interpret it differently. From how I see it, yang "hidup" itu tak semestinya a living thing, however it is still a noun. Yang "hidup" itu does not directly or necessarily refer to human beings, plants nor animals. Relationships are also "living" things, and so when it dies tak patutlah awak nak menangis macam org gila hobo mana entah because that would be entirely inappropriate.

Anywhoo, if you do experience a tragic breakup- let me tell you girlfriend, 

C.H.I.L.L. seriously, cool it. 

   Don't cry tremendously (cuz your face will look totally buruk, trust me. cuz I do) and that there are another 3,248,080,000 males you can smile to :)  hee. nampak macam I ni factual tak? BLEEHHHhehehe. bajet je tu, tp betul lah. It is that number approximately that males cover up from the entire population of the world. But if you have that special someone currently, just cherish the lurrrveee. cehh, mehehe ^^ and don't argue over silly things. However if you do, don't dwell. You'll look back to think that it was something really stupid to fight about, trust mehh :)

   Kenapa perlunya seseorang girl itu membenci tak suka yang amat amat amat sangat ex-boyfie dy? okay, the other way around memang lah ada, but I'm only scoping on the female side rite now. I don't mean that I hate my ex-boyfie cuz I really don't. but it's common that I see this as a typical after-break-up erm, thing. 

   Kammon lah gerlpren, don't be like that maa. I mean, what EXACTLY did he do to make you hate him so much? He killed your mom? your cat? no lemme guess, he broke your nail!?

You see, to hate him after your seperation only portrays how an amateur you are, tak matang. If it's ended, then move on.

FORGIVE AND FORGET.

One thing of which not many people truly understand is the term forgive.

To forgive doesn't mean you're asking for him to come back crawling to you and ask for a second chance. No, wrong sangat. Forgiving is not that you accept all that he did wrong to you and let him go by just like that. 

To forgive is to put everything that's happened behind and just keep moving forward. end.

-sources: The Oprah Winfrey Show-

   Another typical Malay problem (among teens especially), the girl, yg dah kena dump tu; 

1. tak puas hati dgn ex-bf  and then ada jugak yang 
2. pergi benci sekali present girlfriend si ex-nye tu. ya ALLAH.

Maigad nyah, please don't okay?. I think the easiest way to just "let it go" is to try to be a teeeeeeny bit more empathetic. really, would YOU want something like that happening to you? kau baru dgn seorg guy ni, and out of the blue his ex-girlfriend frickin hates you.  Imagine yourself going through that! -__-

End of the world? haha. no, try not to be like that kay darling-darlings out there? Sebagai club-member "Kaum Hawa", don't lower your self-value down as well as along with the rest of the club members' self-values sekali. Look in the mirror, and re-think the benefits of you doing so to others? Ada ke faedah kau nak benci-membenci orang lain? Let me give a hint: NO. k, taa.

why so tebal?

salam :)

  Pada suatu hari, ada lah seorang aunty yang cantik jelita ini ber-strolling dekat mana" entah. Orang ramai memang suka sangat aunty ni. kenapa? sbb dy cantik lah! kan aku baru je tulis cantik jelita tadi? haiyahh =.= tapi dalam ramai" orang yang suka aunty cantik jelita ini, ada juga yang tidak ber-agree. siapakah? why, 

SAYA :) *muka bangga kejap

and all the rakyat jelata pulak bertanya" why haww, kau tak suka dy? apa kau jelos kau tak cantik? nooooo, pegi mati kau lah aku nak jelos. saya just ta suka sbb muka aunty cun melecun ni,..

nampak macam tepung nak buat roti tu ^^ (dough)

  Haa, betul betul. okay dah tasha, cut the crap. na cair mata orang lain baca entry kerepek kau nih +.+ my main point is, kenapa ladies sekarang perlu make-up tebal2 sangat? in my own personal opinion kay (jgn ada yg nak belasah aku plak nnt) nak cantik tak semestinya bedak kena 2,3 inci ma di muka awak tu. bukan ke natural lagi cantik? manis what. maybe ada yg mahu hide pimples, zits, whateva lain jadah tu. fine, i get it.

but, PERLU ke smpai org lain tak boleh cam muka anda lagi? seram lah tasha tengok. fyi, lelaki pun takdela suka sangat org makeup tebal" ni. tau tau? not all la, but maybe a lotttt :) 

  I mean, seriously. why should you hide who you really are eh? maksud nye, kalau dgn laki awak tu, awak sorok2 pun kalau tibe CONTOH nak kahwin pun, you'll have to face him makeup-less jugak. kan kan? takkan na bebedak je manjang. mati lah sel-sel kulit kau nanti T.T haha.

kadang" tu tengok kan, if the person packs up a whole frickin load of compact powder and bla bla (i dont use cosmetics byk2 so tak reti lah hee) nampak macam muka dy berketul-ketul.

going NATURAL doesn't mean keluar rumah bogel terus. no. berpada" lah. macam ni,

see? natural kan? haha, ironic gila. titibe teringat lagu dia everything comes naturally, it comes naturally.. lol. lipgloss, bedak sikit, mascara. and calit sikit eyeshadow. dahhhhh. tak perlu over over. :)

taa^^

lessons on how to be a gentleman

salam :)

  hello, sorray nak post lagi satu entry utk harini memandangkan dah lama jugak aku terkandas dekat alam "tiada-internet-sbb-wifi-jd-mereng" beberapa hari yg lepas hee :3 i find this page very interesting sbb really, what it says mmg betul. so GUYS, PLEASE BACA OKAY? or kalau girls, recommend lah dkt boyfie awak tu eh? it might do him some good ;D

oh and saya pilih mana" yg i think plg best. nak tgk yg lain2 sila klik sini. pstchhyeahh, i cilok post ni dari orang meyh. dont say i tak cakap awal2!

TIPS NAK JADI LELAKI YANG SEJATI? 

1. When she says "I'm Fine", it never means she is
2. If you can't think of a nice thing to say, you aren't thinking hard enough
3. Don't promise to call when you know you won't
4. Hold her hands, especially in front of your friends :)
5. Don't be afraid to make the first move..and to keep making it.
6. Saying whats on your mind is not the end of the world
7. Always remind her she's beautiful. Especially when she least expects it!
8. When she's upset, tuck that strand of hair behind her ear and wrap your arms around her. Until the tears have stopped and your shoulder's drenched :D
9. Kissing her on the forehead is the sweetest thing in the world to a girl.
10. A single hand-picked flower is wayyyy more thoughtful than two dozen store-bought roses! ^^
11. Kiss her spontaneously in the middle of a sentence...ha, jgn nak gatal pulak pg cium sana sini! -.-
12. Be careful with what u say, a girl remembers everything. all the tiny details *__*
13. Love your mother.
14. There is no such thing as being too romantic <3
15. NEVER underestimate a girl's ability to figure things out. Lying won't help, kompem!
16. If you leave without a reason, don't bother coming back with an excuse.
17. NEVER IM if u can text; NEVER text if u can call; NEVER call if u can do it in person (:
18. Handwritten love letters never go out of style ;D
19. Treat your girl right, or another guy will. jangan risau -__-
20. Always say goodnight with a kiss, not an argument.

p/s, this entry may or may not contain matters of which may or may not be appropriate to be done in public or in privacy. readers discretion is advised as  matters might as well be only rightful in the hands of those whom are joint with the string of marriage. 

:) sincerely, a Muslim blogger.

kalau nak cantik, gigi pun kena jaga!

salam :)


I need a new tootbrush, sakit lah gusi. mommy? mr. A? eh eh, gedik pulak tasha ni apahal!? ahhhh, hilang mood na typing"ni. grr grr! *bak kata Alia Syahida grr itu bunyi perut yang lapar. LMHO!
Habis la, takut nanti secara dentally nye Tasha tak terjaga, ta bole da nak tayang gigi mcm ni lagi dah;

 cehh, padahal ini gmba entah bila entah. dengan muka aku yg tembam bam bam *as Walled by Syameer Faruzzi* err, sorry yg korang nampak smudge dekat dahi aku tu sebenanye taik burung. bodo, time tula dy nak berak dkt windscreen aku -.-

erm sebenanye, aku takde la melimpah ruah punya idea for this entry tapi tiba" nafsu ke-berapa-entah (eventhough they say that women have 9nafsu, i rasa lagi banyak kot!) suruh aku menge-type. just so i could share with whomever-you-are about how caring for yourself dentally is also important! erm, if korang jenis yang jaga penampilan lah. cuba bayangkan, kalau muka gila putih melepak macam tepung jagung punya putih and kulit lembut halus mulus kudus kalah bontot baby, tapi RONGAK macam mana? still awak kata tak cantik jugak kan? well, tak cantik bila bukak mulut jela hee :3 

so, dekat sini i nak cakap lah ye. tak semestinya gigi awak kena cantik tersusun rapi macam kereta api baru orang boleh kata "oh dia cantik lah!" nooo, salah! kalau gigi biasa2 pun tapi bersih dan yg penting tak berbau pun sudah cukup loll, macam iklan apa plak ni? -.- haaha.


tips lain pulak that i can give; erm, guna berus gigi yang jenis Soft. bukan Hard tau! sebab kalau berus tu terlalu keras, it will damage and injure your gums. gusi kamu tu lembut, takdelah keras mana so kalau guna yang Hard brushes, hancho lah gusi tu. kesian, and SAKIT TAU! ya Allah Tuhan yang Maha Kuasa je tau. okay, maybe korang penah jugak dengar orang kata, "wallaweyh, Medium la dol! guna Soft macam takde effect bro dekat gigi, tak mati kuman-kuman tu" haa, samting like det laa kan.but actually ikut suka hati kepala batak kau orang lah. tasha just guna advice dentist je. and pakcik dentist kata gunakan yang Soft! ade lah sebab musabab dy, i'm not quite sure lah biologically effect dy macam mana. hehe, you'll have to look that one up for yourself. i dont want to kasi ajaran sesat kat sini! 


well that's all lah for now, mata i ni pun nak kena manjakan jugak. cehhh, apadahal? LOLL^^ till later!

GIRLS: 15 facts

salam :)

so, topic of the day is.. PEREMPUAN. why? entah la, tsha rasa mmg orang suka cakap pasal perempuan. kan? cuba tanya lelaki, kompremo de amor dyorg suka! either mengaku or not mesti suka lah, waraq ke tak waraq ke. depends lah, on their iiman. bergantung kepada how they kawal. kalau perempuan sendiri pulak, suka jugak topik ni. mengumpat! haha, okay ganas sangat tu. gossip hehe.

 perasan tak, a MAJORITY of the common commercials mesti datang with the assistance of female models. Lamborghini, Ferrari kereta" hott korang tengok promote series dyorg pun pakai comel-comel punya peragawati (ceh, berbahasa pulak ) and dyorg pun mesti pakai itsy-bitsy punya skirts or skimpy dimpy punya red-leather pants. am i right or am i right? oke, enough merepek now.

did you know that..?

1.  if a girl likes a guy, she can practically talk about him aaaaalllll the time 
2. however, not necessarily with friends pun, some in their diaries!
3. ada certain (yg lebih berani) lagi suka if kalau dy boleh berbaik" dgn si jejaka. in this way, she feels as if being his friend and preserving a great friendship puts her in "safe mode". listening to his problems, bla bla bla. AND the guy sometimes can't even tell if she's flirting with him since he would most likely ignore it and think hey, we're just friends. she didn't mean that
4.  many girls can cook, but many of us like guys who can cook too!
5. careful, girls hate it when guys insult their physical features. okay, maybe tak. tapi kalau selalu buat, she's bound to get pissed off someday.
6. a lot of girls don't actually realize how pretty they are. SERIOUSLY, so kalau korang puji dia and she continuously denies it, it might actually mean she's that oblivious.
7. 53% daripada kaum wanita tak keluar rumah without their make-up on!
8. girls HATE being lied to, by loved ones especially. sebab 1) she might as well cannot trust you any further and 2) it shows that you dont trust them! the truth can be painful sometimes, and we get it lah. better bagitau the truth rather than lying and kantoi-ing in the future.
9. a lot of us believe that actions speaks more than words. now what does that mean eh? maksudnya, ktorg boleh menyampah je dengan laki yg suka over2 dengan pujian neh. lidah macam jell-O, lembik! suka je kasi kata" manis, but in the end sama je. THEY BAIL! so if any of u guys wish to impress her, do something by means expressing how you feel instead of just simply talking about it. it doesn't work that way.
10. apologize! hati perempuan ni lembut but careful, lembut2 pun boleh keras jugak! laki yang tak reti na mintak maaf ni mmg a pain in my arse lah ok, tasha jujur ni. maybe dy tak semestinya maafkan instantly but she'll get around lah. no worries 
11. girls can talk about the randomest things, with people they're comfortable with. so if she can talk about anything with you, it means she trusts you. so dont screw it!
12. erm, ni tasha dah sebut dekat no. 6 tapi nak sentuh jugak. yes, eeeeverybody loves it when they're being complimented. so, apatah lagi us ladies kan? guys, dont worry bila nak puji si sayang anda. banyak banyak pun takpe, it will only make her feel appreciated. even if she says "stop it lah, mana ada!" ayat cover je tu, dy tatau na cakap apa sebab dy maluuu. lol^^
13. IMPORTANTAYY! TOLONG LAH FAHAM when we're in the state of having our PMS' haha. (if tatau pms tu apa, google sendiri ek!) sebab no matter how u guys try to understand the circumstances, you actually never will LOL. just be patient and stay with her. we practically lose maybe half our consciousness when PMS-ing. 
14. Girls are very self-conscious by nature, and the sooner you can accept that, the better! They will always look at themselves in front of the mirror because they can't help it. eh, don't tell me guys dont bring tiny mirrors in their pockets kay? 
15. GIRLS WILL ALWAYS THINK THAT THEY'RE FAT NO MATTER WHAT! haha, i sooo am not exaggerating eh, its true lah. it's the fact that they accept themselves for who they are or not. so guys, just try to help by being understanding. convince them, do whatever sensible lah  because this goes hand in hand with their self-consciousness issue from no. 14) 

okay tasha dah takde idea dah nii, so next time lah bila dah isi lagi tasha post . byee :)

looking through a girl's purse

girls, what do you do when suddenly out of nowhere a masked guy dressed in black; black turtle-neck sweater(most probably if dy pandai bergaya, Padini) and khakis steps up from behind you and then stranggles you with his arm? if it were me i would,

1. try to scream, but then dy mesti tutup mulut sy kan
2. jilat tangan dy. eww, might as well taste salty =.=' dont like that.
3. try to bite him of course! i have veryvery sharp teeth *kaching!
4. elbow his stomach; but if he has massive hott abs, this would probably not work as much. mr. A, if ur reading this, jgn prasan. dont test ur abs-hardness now.haha! kidding dear^^
5. PULL HIS HAIR. we girls like that kan kan ? :)

 *truthfully,

i ta rasa pun i can do all these things. sy kecik dan tulus lagi kudus apetah lagi COMEL, and doing karutan di atas ini mcm mip lah plak. haha.

so, really. apakah yg bole kita lakukan sebagai seorg "wanita" apabila di-ter-attack?

1. blankkk. smack the guy in the face with your purse lah! if you're a real girl, your purse would be heavy enough to produce a momentum(cehh!) yg cukup to make him go 'oof!'
2. if your bag is opened-which it's not supposed to-grab your mascara! and poke his eye :) seyes, sy sndri pun penah tercocok, SUMPA pedih! this tip is hard sb u have to think fast (; 
3. spray your perfume up his nose. but maybe in his eyes pun bole ^^ yes, sy tahu our wangi2 itu penting dan every titis berharga. big deal =.=' beli baru lah.
4. baling your sikat at him! haha, simple kan. stall all you can if u cannot fight.
5. tarik your beady  necklace(if sanggup and if murah) and campak atas lantai. if u're lucky, nnt dy wobble wobble and then gedebuk!
6. pepper-spray. NO, bukan dalam mulut dy lah bijak-.- i dunno lah plak about this since i've never really had the chance to come across pepper-sprays sold in kedai runcits ?
7. okay, last if nothing works. just runawayyyyy. sy tatau na kasi apa lagi advice sb i sndri pun ta pena kna attack nan masked-men. sbb i have mr. A! is that right? lmao, corny gilaa.but betul la, i cant lie :)